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dopeass-nerd:

bleed-peroxide:

youngblackandvegan:

eclecticdreamer:

pussyyliquor:

I AM ACTUALLY CRYING OVER THIS

So am I

and that’s why you don’t go around fixing people

and that’s why you don’t give up pieces of yourself to make someone else whole

^ ^ ^ Seconding this. You can’t be a proper friend to someone, be there to support them, be anything, if you don’t care for yourself first. I speak from experience with this, and it’s a lesson that I’ve learned the hard way. 

There is nothing noble about thoughtless self-sacrifice.

There is nothing wrong with putting your own needs first, and making sure that you’re okay before you offer anything of yourself.

Giving and giving of yourself only hurts you, and the damage can take a very, very long time to start trying to repair. 

Some people never repair themselves after giving so much. Nothing is wrong with putting yourself first sometimes because all some people do is take and take and take. And guess what..while you are trying to recover, they’ve moved on.